Scent of a Freesia

  Tribute Quilt

By Debbie Stevens

 

Deliberately Debbie

Deliberately Debbie

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  Mum was diagnosed with Ovarian cancer, stage 111, in March of 2000-
Her trip to Europe out the window and bags re-packed for hospital, my dear mother dealt a raw deal.
She underwent major radical surgery, April 10th where the nasty cancer was found, going about its usual business of destroying its victim. Had mum's diagnosis come sooner, I doubt I'd be sitting here sharing this with you-
Ovarian cancer crept into our lives, silently and ferociously stripping away each layer of our soul and time.
During her extended stay in ward E of the John Hunter hospital, mum too, became silent. The only time she felt able to speak about her situation was to give me a message...one she wanted told to others, one I STILL spread like wildfire.
"People must be told, Deb. They need to know about this disease.....Ovarian cancer."

We lost mum 20 days short of my 40th birthday, and I vowed to keep that promise to her, so here I am. Once I found the space for my voice, I then began seeking various ways of getting it out. Hence, the OvCa Tribute Quilt. Just one of many awareness methods, but definitely one of the most pleasurable.
Once I'd received the 'okay' from the Director of OvCa Australia [National Ovarian cancer network] to get going on my project, it was full steam ahead! With the help pf another lady, we set about creating our own patches for this first ever ovca quilt in Australia, and then encouraged others to join in. Anyone, affected directly/indirectly with the disease was asked to donate a square.


The call went out across the country, and NSW & QLD surprised us with their immediate response to take part.
In my State alone, a total of fourty-three patches were carefully cut, sewn and designed for the quilt, while the remaining twenty-four came from a quilting group in QLD!
Each square, dedicated to each patient, family/friend.
For me, it was a real challenge both mentally and physically as I chased up calls and emails which poured in! I attended a meeting with a group of ovca ladies, all living with the disease, and we had a ball! It was such an uplifting event, meeting their families and friends, putting faces to so many of the voices I'd been networking with and sharing great ideas! The end result, magnificent! Sadly, during the making of the quilt, we fare welled a couple of the donors, so the day it hit the newspapers in Sydney, was the day the message took on a whole new meaning for me.
I'd GLADLY do it all over again! 


These statistics dated 2005

  • 1200 women a year diagnosed
  • 800 a year will die
  • 75% diagnosed advanced stages
  • 3/4 dead within 5 years of diagnosis
  • Sixth most common cause of cancer death in women

    For Mum, Jean Melissa & Pamela
 


 




 

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